Delusional Optimism
I just 3 spent hours this post. I am not amused but from now on will write my posts in EVERNOTE and copy over here.
Delusional Optimism is --to think yourself into a state of positive attitude where you actually believe your are in a much better condition than you really are. If you are told what actually is going on, you take that information and minimize the negative and ignore it if possible. Your spouse may be the only one, who knows how bad off you are, but you may not believe her, or you think, you are keeping her unaware of the problem. You may think that you are shielding the spouse from the really negative situation. Guess what, you are not. Get over it and start to deal with reality.
Truth is that you do need to realize that your spouse, has your best interest at heart, but you need to let her help you.
I may be back to discuss this further.
[Edit - frustrating technology]
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